To: Marline Elie
I was not going to respond to your e-mail , however when
I noticed the time you sent it so early in the
morning(5:02 am) I realized you must have been in great
distress and unable to sleep. I also decided at this
time to only cc this e-mail to the above individuals.
Marline I suspect somehow direct or indirectly your dear
husband Jean Claude probably influenced you in writing
this "defend Jean Claude e-mail" you sent to all of us.
Reading your e-mail provoked the feelings of reading the
e-mail of an
abused, brainwashed woman.
Jean Claude must feel in heaven for feeling he has
from our family so that he can have
"better control" over you .....this
is what he always wanted...he said
not allow you to go anywhere
Marline you said you are a strong woman with a good self
esteem; yes indeed this is what I always thought of you,
the way we were raised, however I am not so sure
anymore... you are perhaps
unaware of the
to you recently by your dear husband.
You made the decision to marry Jean Claude, you said "he
is a good man and a caring person", and that you are
happy with him, you have fun with him and love
him...good for you. However
Jean Claude may
have succeeded in fooling you but he knows he
cannot fool others. What disturbs me and the rest of the
family is that this "good man"
assaulted your daughter,
said very nasty,
things to her and did not see anything wrong with it and
you and him described it as an "accident".
Jean Claude knew very well
not an accident....just
as his suspected
abuses to you are not accidents.
Marline it may make you feel good to defend your
husband, fine with me but you do know "your real
husband". I do hope for your sake he is changing.
I know there is a "grandiose
feeling" of having "RockMasters" as your husband
as you parade in
the Haitian community and likewise
Jean Claude may
feel good about getting an
desirable woman like you that other men wanted....however
life is more than that. I respect Jean Claude as your
chosen husband however, after what he has done and said
to the family ,he
cannot without apologizing "push himself on us"
and telling us
he has control
not let you go
anywhere without him....this we cannot accept and you
should not also.
Marline you and Jean Claude made
several references to my past difficulties with Stan.
Stan is aware of those references. Yes you are correct
nobody is perfect. However, "big difference"
Stan did not verbally abused
anyone. I was never
abused verbally or physically. Stan
is indeed a caring and generous individual, an excellent
father to Yasmine , a good provider someone who also
likes to have fun but plans for the future. Most
importantly when we did realize our difficulties instead
of denying them and
"pretend everything was fine",
we obtained professional assistance which we paid fully
out of pocket. Denying a problem exist and
let oneself be "brainwashed"
that "everything is fine" are
classic symptoms that professionals often see in
verbal and physical abuses are present.
By the way, with regards to reportedly the job Jean
Claude was assisting Tiffany to get;
agree with Tiffany,
with her history of conflicts with Jean Claude
why should she trust him with her transcript.
Jean Claude should have respected her decision to refuse
his assistance. If Jean Claude has such great job
contacts he should use it for himself and to assist you
and I know you are looking for a better job. this I am
By the way Marline,
I did not open
the attachment with Jean Claude's resume...I
am not interested , it would not impress me at all. A
resume is as good as what its owner does with it.
psychiatric clinic where I work
we have many patients with Ivy League education,
graduates from Harvard, Yale, Columbia, Princeton, etc.
with Law, medical and engineer degrees, worked at
various high profile distinguished places and currently
and unable to work. So if one reviewed these individuals
resumes , one would indeed be quite impressed.
Marline, our family all care for you, we love you, we
have nothing against you and respect your decision to be
with your husband, the man you said you love..
are all concerned about you" and praying for you.
I will always remain available to you if you need my